Inspired by one of the questions in this week's #MakersHour.
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Now, I'm sure to get a small pileon from people telling me that there's a difference between having stuff, and hoarding. And they are right. Kinda.
Severe enough Hoarding can be a psychological condition, often with causes rooted in trauma responses. The thing is, for almost everyone reading this thread. That is not you. Having a lot of stuff is not the same as hoarding and should not be treated the same. Starting with, don't feel bad for having possessions. (Sorry Marx).
5/nI have friends who went for the decluttering thing, with a big clear out and getting rid of possessions. And now a few years later, they are trying to buy back some of the books they got rid of. Fortunately they are financially able to do this. But it's not an enjoyable process. I hate to watch it, but there's nothing I can do. At the time or now.
So how does this fit in with minimalism the aesthetic?
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I have friends who went for the decluttering thing, with a big clear out and getting rid of possessions. And now a few years later, they are trying to buy back some of the books they got rid of. Fortunately they are financially able to do this. But it's not an enjoyable process. I hate to watch it, but there's nothing I can do. At the time or now.
So how does this fit in with minimalism the aesthetic?
6/nI'm not sure how, but a while back I fell down a YouTube rabbit hole of interior design videos. Around the time when the minimalism aesthetic was quite prominent. Watching those videos I felt cold. There was something about the houses featured in those videos, & I say house and not home intentionally, it just felt. Cold. Unwelcoming. Impersonal. Unloved. It made me wonder about the people who live there. What is their personality? Do they have any hobbies? Are they just their job & netflix?
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I'm not sure how, but a while back I fell down a YouTube rabbit hole of interior design videos. Around the time when the minimalism aesthetic was quite prominent. Watching those videos I felt cold. There was something about the houses featured in those videos, & I say house and not home intentionally, it just felt. Cold. Unwelcoming. Impersonal. Unloved. It made me wonder about the people who live there. What is their personality? Do they have any hobbies? Are they just their job & netflix?
7/nThe home you live in says a lot about who you are. Your personality, your hobbies, your interests. Whether it's the climbing gear hanging in the hallway, or the hiking maps of the Pyrenees on the dining table, or the fantasy books on the shelf. It's part of who you are. All a white carpet and white sofa and absent shelves and empty walls tells us is? Is what exactly? You really like cleaning or can pay someone to clean for you ? I don't get it.
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The home you live in says a lot about who you are. Your personality, your hobbies, your interests. Whether it's the climbing gear hanging in the hallway, or the hiking maps of the Pyrenees on the dining table, or the fantasy books on the shelf. It's part of who you are. All a white carpet and white sofa and absent shelves and empty walls tells us is? Is what exactly? You really like cleaning or can pay someone to clean for you ? I don't get it.
8/nAnd it's not like that minimalism comes cheap. There's a white sofa that's popular with certain types of celebrities that costs upwards of $500,000. That's not a typo. No I'm not using some weird continental comma as a decimal point thing. The whole aesthetic is flaunting wealth in an aspirational way. It real bugs me.
At the other end of the scale tho there the extreme minimalists who divest themselves of all their possessions. Down to the "bare essentials". And wow is that privileged.
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And it's not like that minimalism comes cheap. There's a white sofa that's popular with certain types of celebrities that costs upwards of $500,000. That's not a typo. No I'm not using some weird continental comma as a decimal point thing. The whole aesthetic is flaunting wealth in an aspirational way. It real bugs me.
At the other end of the scale tho there the extreme minimalists who divest themselves of all their possessions. Down to the "bare essentials". And wow is that privileged.
9/nThe YouTube channel "exploring alternatives" had a video a few years ago about "extreme minimalism" and specifically some guy who had only 47 possessions. It's a cool idea. Pair your life down to the absolute bare minimum. Even down to not having a home. Instead relying on borrowing places from others. As if that shouldn't be a giant red flag of privilege right there (no a red flag wasn't one of the 47 items). This is an incredibly extreme form of minimalism. And it's utterly unsustainable.
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The YouTube channel "exploring alternatives" had a video a few years ago about "extreme minimalism" and specifically some guy who had only 47 possessions. It's a cool idea. Pair your life down to the absolute bare minimum. Even down to not having a home. Instead relying on borrowing places from others. As if that shouldn't be a giant red flag of privilege right there (no a red flag wasn't one of the 47 items). This is an incredibly extreme form of minimalism. And it's utterly unsustainable.
10/nThey had even got rid of their winter clothing for the summer, because of the privilege of being able to buy more come the next winter. That's not only incredibly privileged, but it's the complete antithesis of the anti consumer idea that minimalism original espoused. Imagine if everyone threw out their Christmas decorations every January and bought them again in December... The amount of waste. Yikes. It hurts just thinking about it.
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They had even got rid of their winter clothing for the summer, because of the privilege of being able to buy more come the next winter. That's not only incredibly privileged, but it's the complete antithesis of the anti consumer idea that minimalism original espoused. Imagine if everyone threw out their Christmas decorations every January and bought them again in December... The amount of waste. Yikes. It hurts just thinking about it.
11/nSo what does this mean for most of us? Don't feel bad that you have stuff. For almost everyone reading this, you're not a hoarder. You just have possessions. And chances are they just aren't store well. Rather than binning stuff, you are probably better off looking at ways to better organise them. Investing some time and effort into some storage crates or organisation items is likely to be far more beneficial to you than throwing stuff out that you may later regret.
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So what does this mean for most of us? Don't feel bad that you have stuff. For almost everyone reading this, you're not a hoarder. You just have possessions. And chances are they just aren't store well. Rather than binning stuff, you are probably better off looking at ways to better organise them. Investing some time and effort into some storage crates or organisation items is likely to be far more beneficial to you than throwing stuff out that you may later regret.
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I said at the start of this thread I'd also talk about Minimalism the architecture movement. But as this thread is already 13 posts long, and I'm getting cold sat here sipping a beer and writing the thread. I'm gonna do a separate thread in the next few days on Minimalist architecture and the built environment.
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I said at the start of this thread I'd also talk about Minimalism the architecture movement. But as this thread is already 13 posts long, and I'm getting cold sat here sipping a beer and writing the thread. I'm gonna do a separate thread in the next few days on Minimalist architecture and the built environment.
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@quixoticgeek ๐งต I like your thread very much!
I'm in the situation of preparing to move to something smaller after collecting important stuff for more than 30 yrs, and I often curse: "Why didn't I listen to Kondo!"But regarding old things I remember that things tell stories, they are physical memories. And the collected stones from a holiday are much more precious than everything money can buy. But well, I have to sort stuff out and it's so difficult to decide!
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@quixoticgeek ๐งต I like your thread very much!
I'm in the situation of preparing to move to something smaller after collecting important stuff for more than 30 yrs, and I often curse: "Why didn't I listen to Kondo!"But regarding old things I remember that things tell stories, they are physical memories. And the collected stones from a holiday are much more precious than everything money can buy. But well, I have to sort stuff out and it's so difficult to decide!
What you tell about@quixoticgeek ๐งต material you could need for repairing, it was the norm of living dozens of years ago!
In our farmhouse museum, we show people how everything was repaired and material collected to have parts for repairing. Our conservators do the same: we have cupboards full of old screws from the rubbish โ because the sizes for historical objects are no longer manufactured. People who collect/donate such materials help us to maintain our exhibition pieces.
And people with Kondo-houses can't -